The Art of Allowance: Whatever We Allow Will Grow

One year ago, I spent two months in Thailand.

Not chasing productivity.

Not building anything.

Just living simply — in a small bungalow, surrounded by nature, silence, and space.

For a long time, I dreamed of taking a journey like this.

Back home, many people leave for a long “after army” trip — sometimes for a year, sometimes more.

I never did. Life pulled me straight into responsibility, work, and momentum.

This trip wasn’t about ticking a box I missed.

It was about something much deeper.

It was a gift to my soul and psyche —

a permission slip to rest in a way I hadn’t allowed myself before.

Looking back now, I can see how much deeper I could have let go.

How many layers of tension, control, and urgency I was still holding.

And instead of judging that, I meet it with compassion.

Because allowance is a practice.

Not a destination.

Life as a Practice of Allowance

Whatever we allow, will grow.

This applies not only to habits and thoughts, but to entire ways of being.

Are we truly meant to spend a lifetime working ourselves to exhaustion?

Or is this simply a program we’ve been fed — one that serves certain structures more than it serves the human soul?

From my own experience, I know that dismantling this program takes courage.

It takes faith.

It takes responsibility.

Allowing yourself a freer way of living doesn’t mean “doing nothing.”

It often requires more effort than following the familiar path.

It means actively deconstructing old belief systems

and consciously building new ones —

practical, grounded ways of living that honor freedom, rest, creativity, and inner truth.

Being Without Constant Doing

For so many of us, the real challenge isn’t success.

It’s being without constantly having to do.

Yet within true being, there is an essential kind of doing —

a natural movement that arises from desire, intuition, and genuine need.

Not from pressure.

Not from comparison.

Not from external expectations.

When we allow ourselves to slow down,

we begin to hear what actually wants to move through us.

A Time of Collective Shifts

We are living in a time of enormous transitions.

Old systems are cracking.

New realities are being explored, imagined, and embodied.

Exploring new concepts of existence

is not escapism —

it’s preparation.

Preparation for a more conscious, aligned, and humane way of living.

How much abundance, money, joy, free time, loving people, trust, laughter, kindness, community, expansion, excitement, fun, love, friendship, love making, good music, tasty meals, long journeys, stress free life are you allowing in your reality

It’s fully up to us and our mind 👌🩵

And it all begins with allowance.